Neither Clarke nor Lexa’s defining characteristic was their sexuality — in fact, sexuality is always treated on The 100 as an aside rather than the sole thing that defined the characters. Lexa and Clarke’s relationship made no one blink twice, other than the political ramifications of their union. Their romance was problematic only because of the political, rather than sexual lines that it crossed. Lexa believed that feelings were weakness, but gave into her passion and sentiment for Clarke. She obtained a moment of happiness before her life was so cruelly cut short. I do believe that there are an immense number of story possibilities for Clarke that will emerge from Lexa’s death, which will leave a vacuum in the power struggle among the Grounders (and the Skaikru). I believe that Clarke will have to find the strength to live again, just as she did after Finn’s death. And I believe that the show will eventually find another romantic match for Clarke, although I do hope it’s another woman as strong and commanding as Lexa.
Would Lexa’s death have cut so deeply had she and Clarke not consummated their relationship? Absolutely. The show dangled their love in front of the viewer — look how beautiful, look how tender!, it said — before hermetically sealing it off, making the sting of Lexa’s death all the more palpable as Lexa and Clarke’s romance, after a season and a half of simmering, smolders with passion and then explodes into pain and grief and rage. All we’re left with is dust. But that’s all that anyone is left with, The 100 would seem to say: Life is short and survival is hard. But I also wouldn’t have wanted Lexa to die before she and Clarke could have been together. If she had been killed without having that sumptuous, gorgeous bedroom scene, wouldn’t that have been even worse? It might be cold comfort to think that Lexa went to her grave happy, but she had at least those moments of bliss with Clarke before her life was snuffed out.
Couples — whether gay or straight — rarely stay together on The 100. If the reverse were true, I’d have a far bigger issue with the killing of Lexa. But life on the Earth of The 100 is nasty, brutish, and short… and so are the romances between the show’s characters. To date, only one couple (Octavia/Lincoln) has made it through the last two and a half seasons with both characters intact, and with Ricky Whittle set to star in Starz’s American Gods, I can’t help but feel that Clarke will soon have someone else with whom to grieve before long...